Strength in Silence

As you trekked around campus yesterday, on your way to and from classes, to eat with friends, or to make a meeting on time, you may have been distracted by different students scribbling ferociously on pieces of paper and wearing simple black t-shirts with a one word message: 'silenced.'

These students were participating in Elon's Day of Silence, a collaborative effort Elon has put on since 2003 that unites students in taking a stand against the injustice felt by those that are lesbian, gay, bi-sexual, and transgendered (LGBT). Elon students joined over half a million other students across the country in the effort this year. They took a day-long vow of silence to mirror the silence felt by those who feel it everyday, those that are forced into the shadows because of their sexual preference. The statement made by these students was one of awareness and recognition, to show that this silencing must end.

If you are a friend of a participant, you may have experienced the silence first hand. Upon asking them a question or striking up a conversation, you may have been greeted with a printed card displaying the day's purpose, or as mentioned earlier, a written note. The effort behind not saying a word for a full day must have taken much concentration and patience, both from those who participated and those who did not, but the experience itself and the effects of it worked together to make the point. These students held a peaceful demonstration that lasted all day, putting faces and actions alongside a prejudice that is plaguing the country.

While observing yesterday, you may have been saying to yourself 'I didn't know they were gay,' as you noticed the faces of those wearing shirts. This is a common misconception. You weren't aware because all of them weren't. The Day of Silence is not an event excluding heterosexuals. Participation is open to all LGBTs, their allies, friends, and those who merely just don't agree with the terrible unfairness that exists. There were many heterosexuals who chose to proudly support and walk around yesterday constantly being labeled by those who did not know them. There was no fear of being thought of as something different; the cause was the message of importance. Many students think that they automatically cannot participate because they just do not know. But what would be the sense behind a group who often feels left out themselves excluding another group? Exactly.

Equally, Spectrum wishes to draw in any and all members who share their common views. Homosexuality is not a requirement.

The quote by Henry David Thoreau on the back of this year's t-shirts reads, "It is never too late to give up your prejudices." A strong message for a strong event. So next year, when you see postings on E-Net, fliers and banners announcing meetings, go and see what it's all about. Be silent for a day. Go and listen to a speaker. Don't be apprehensive about educating yourself.